As we mentioned in part 1 , it is very important to set yourself apart from the rest of the crowd at a speed dating event. If you ask the same questions as the other daters, your conversations will likely be forgettable. By the end of the event, people will be tired of answering the same questions about their job and hobbies! So we'll offer some suggestions of how you can initiate a unique and engaging conversation.
The Source for speed dating
Meet Russian Singles Ladies Online | Brides Dating
By: Beth Brindle. If the dating scene in your town has you and your single friends longing for the days of arranged marriages, or if you're happily attached and ready to take your matchmaking urges to the next level, it may be time to consider hosting a speed dating event. Speed dating has been around since , when Rabbi Yaacov Deyo and several of his single students put a new twist on the longstanding Jewish tradition of introducing young Jewish singles to one another at chaperoned gatherings. At a speed dating event, participants are paired up in a series of quick five- to seven-minute "dates. While seven minutes may not seem long enough to determine whether a new acquaintance is a potential match, Rabbi Deyo and other speed dating organizers have found that it gives participants plenty of time to gauge their level of interest or get a feeling that the other person is just not the right fit.
New in our blog
Under 'Organization' it goes: "Contact information cannot be traded during the initial meeting, in order to reduce pressure especially on women to accept or reject a suitor to his or her face. Why should there be more pressure on women than on men? It's sexist and I therefore removed it. The question we dealt with in designing the events wasn't should there be more or less pressure on men or women in accepting or rejecting a suitor, but rather was there more pressure.
A good conversation is an art, that some people spend years learning and practicing. In a speed dating you only have about four minutes to create a fun and enjoyable conversation and to make a good impression. That is exactly what the focus of a speed dating session should be. Of course you want to find out if you could be with the person for a long run, but it is best to keep the 'big question' about the ex's or children for the subsequent dates. All you are really trying to figure out on the speed date is whether the two of you have something in common and if you would be able to carry out a conversation that lasts longer than four minutes.